One of the hardest parts of pet guardianship is the inevitability of having to say goodbye. No matter how many years we get to spend with our beloved companions, it is never long enough. Having to make the decision to let our pets go—regardless of age or reason—is a uniquely difficult choice, but one that can truly be the final act of love for the furry, feathered, and scaly friends that have given us so much.

Sometimes, our pets tell us clearly when they are ready to cross that Rainbow Bridge. For others, it can be difficult to determine when they are no longer able to enjoy their life. For elderly or terminally ill patients, we recommend keeping a daily diary of how your pet is feeling. Are they eating? Are they able to get around well enough to do their business normally, with or without support? Are they still doing things they have always enjoyed—whether that be playing with toys, cuddling on the couch, going for car rides, or watching out the window? Are they interacting with your family normally? Are they breathing comfortably? Are they sleeping all the time, or struggling to rest? Are you as their guardian able to meet their care needs, physically, emotionally, and financially?

Periodically review this diary and track what percentage of days seem “good” versus “not so good.” If the not so good days are starting to outnumber the good, then it is time to discuss quality of life with your family and with us. There may be things that we can do to help improve comfort for a time, or there may not be. We will be honest with you and try to provide guidance and options, but ultimately, the decision whether to keep going or help your pet to pass is up to you.

At Pawsome Vet Care, we strive to make this transition as peaceful as possible for you and your companion. Each euthanasia situation will differ, as you and your pet are individuals. We will review the process with you at the time to ensure that you understand and are comfortable with how the procedure will go. If you have questions or concerns, or a prior experience that did not go as expected, please let us know.

We have partnered with Final Gift to provide cremation services. Final Gift is well-known for treating everyone with dignity and care, as well as providing a wide range of aftercare options. Through their Eternal Memories portal, you will be able to decide on the right aftercare choice for you and your companion in the comfort of your own home. You will then have the option of picking up your companion’s urn and/or keepsake either at Pawsome Vet Care or at Final Gift’s facility in Manchester, or having it shipped directly to your home. They have also generously committed to providing a donation to our Jim Snyder Memorial CARE fund for each of our patients that they handle aftercare for, so that we can, in turn, provide financial assistance to clients and patients in need.  

Being able to lay our patients to rest is an enormous responsibility, and one that we take very seriously. It is also a gift. We are truly grateful that we can ease pain and suffering, and allow our patients a quick and peaceful passing. Please reach out to us and let us know how we can help you as you navigate this journey, and know that you do not have to do this alone.